有一种爱叫放手......

爱上一个人不需要勇气，但是放弃一个爱上的人却需要很大的勇气。

当你爱上一个人的时候，他仿佛已经根植在自己的心房了。

放弃他，无疑仿佛将自己的心也挖出来。

可是他不爱你，根植在你心房的思念就像带有腐蚀性的毒品一样，将你的五脏六腑慢慢腐蚀掉。简直比挖心还痛苦。

尽管你很爱很爱他，感觉没有他自己会活不下去。但是这仅仅是一种感觉而已。曾有人说，这个世界上，没有谁会因为没有谁，而活不下去。

放不下也要放，那么首先，在行为上先放下。

当他不爱自己的时候，最好的选择不是用等待感动对方。而是放弃他，而且彻底地放开自己，让自己拥有爱上别人或被别人爱上的机会。

尽管我们都知道，不是说放弃就能放弃的。

但是你要学着放弃。你要告诉自己，我要学着放弃，只因为我太爱你。

所以，他不再爱你的时候，请不要再打电话给他说关于你的事情，因为他没有兴趣。

请不要再在节日里送礼物给他，请不要再在半夜发信息说爱他，请不要再在你们的老地方等他出现。

更不要用自己的青春甚至生命作为赌注。因为你赢不起，更输不起。

当他不爱你的时候，请选择放弃。他只是你的一场劫难。

用放弃来保护已经受了伤的自己。

其实你在放开他的同时，也是放开自己。相信自己，你会遇到一个值得你一辈子也不放开的人，值得用一辈子去等待的人，值得用一辈子去爱的人。

遗忘，是对过去的另一种怀念。

始终无法遗忘，请你铭记。

放弃，是对爱情的另一种成全。

始终无法得到，请你放手。

请记住，有一种爱叫放手。

september ♥"enjoy"♥ life - holiday♥

Long long journey part 1

Stop 1# Yong peng & batu pahat

Our 1st stop is at yong peng which is wee siang n peiling 's hometown. Haha.. This is my 1st time driving at kampung road go to town and batu pahat..Our destination on that day includes BP mall, summit and North station cafe. In the morning, raining very heavily and all of us sleep until 11 sumtin only wake up...I wan quite enjoy kampung life, u can even realize that it is better than city like kl...u can fresh up with fresh air and the water is not clean and cool. I take very less photo here...jz share some of that...other is post at fb....love the journey too....In between have a lot of funny things...we talk loud, laugh loud inside the car when we are on the way going BP...

wee siong's house...really kampung style house is made by wood


ice blended chocolate -really delicious and nice..love the cocoa crunch

tell u a funny story...actually b4 that day we plan to go out yum cha in that nite which wee siang bring us thr..MAybe tat day is hari raya...the cafe is fully crowded of ppl..and u know the waiteress said wat when v wanna make order from her..She said the "ice" finish ady..that means v cant eat this also..bull shit, man...We were feel very angry and we just goes off...
But on the second day, v still wanna try this...haha..luckily 2day the "ice" not out of stock..




guess what it is ?the hot pot filled with the "soap"...

mine- lee hom bubble tea!!!


Stop2#jb



outing on tat nite...feel very disappointed ...my bro use the car..the v can go out to sing k..and was due to the reason:public holiday..actually v plan to go sing k...but the room was fully booked...lastly, wee siang's sister frens come n fetch us go yum cha...

Bruce lee said: Knowing is not enough we must apply it.

Willing is not enough we must do it.



Stop 3# city square, jb
(me n fion)

j co ice blended-tea time

1st time drink this...ice blended chocolate with white cream...waiting this for more than 15 minutes...jco shud improve their service..but i can see thru how they make this...

donuts, ice blended, straw...

seating..

my ka chan....(hmm..haha)..so many things to bring..very heavy also

newly buy..use my own money to buy this...continue using this brand..wish my skin can be better..

FOC products

chocolate chip which is buy from s'pore..$ 3 sumtin forget ady the price...the price can buy the famous amos (100mg)..this is worth to buy at s'pore

last tuesday, we bac kl again n waiting for the next trip...kuantan...v go one u for shopping n sing k session...


some photo taken by me in the padini fitting room...

Stop 4# kuantan, sg lembing

We take afternoon bus take 3and half hours reach thr almost 5pm sumtin..
Shi yun's bro come n fetch 5 of us...We were waiting for janice gang and other gangs coem n fetch us.. We go the kuantan pasar malam buy ah ma shoes...

funny story again: the two days trips (we hiking n go up to see the waterfall and rainbow) when i wanna cross over the "small sungai", my slipper was dropped 2 times..They all keep on laughing on me...but our ABM group was really funny and get closer after this trip...looking for the nx trip...

bukit panoroma...

our room at kuantan

our bed...

more update on fb!!!